When you hire a Doula she does not replace dad! She is continuous labor support for both mom and dad.
Often times, especially when attending the birth of their fist baby, dads don't know what to expect in the labor and delivery area. Sights, sounds, smells,and medical procedures are all new to him and all too often dad's are expected to learn medical terms and procedures and should also know how to support mom during labor and delivery, help her make informed decisions all while being emotionally connected to mom. This is not fair to dads, and can leave them overwhelmed and feeling somewhat responsible for undesirable outcomes. Doulas enable dad's to be supportive as he wishes, or as he is able to be during the labor and delivery process, The burden of feeling like he must do all and be all things to mom is lifted. He is free to show her love and affection that she so deserves at this life-changing event. Dad's sometimes feel like they have to rescue mom from pain or difficult emotions. The doula is there to reassure them both that what mom is experiencing is normal and healthy, he can help mom give into her instincts, making mom more comfortable by assisting in comfort measures. Mom, Dad and Doula All work together as a Team to bring about the most amazing thing .... The Miracle of Life!!!!!!
Often times, especially when attending the birth of their fist baby, dads don't know what to expect in the labor and delivery area. Sights, sounds, smells,and medical procedures are all new to him and all too often dad's are expected to learn medical terms and procedures and should also know how to support mom during labor and delivery, help her make informed decisions all while being emotionally connected to mom. This is not fair to dads, and can leave them overwhelmed and feeling somewhat responsible for undesirable outcomes. Doulas enable dad's to be supportive as he wishes, or as he is able to be during the labor and delivery process, The burden of feeling like he must do all and be all things to mom is lifted. He is free to show her love and affection that she so deserves at this life-changing event. Dad's sometimes feel like they have to rescue mom from pain or difficult emotions. The doula is there to reassure them both that what mom is experiencing is normal and healthy, he can help mom give into her instincts, making mom more comfortable by assisting in comfort measures. Mom, Dad and Doula All work together as a Team to bring about the most amazing thing .... The Miracle of Life!!!!!!